There's nothing wrong with wanting more from men, there's everything wrong with feeling entitled to it. Men don't owe you a meaningful relationship any more than you owe them sex. Ultimately everyone is in sole charge of what they want in a partner, but ranting at people who don't fit that bill as though they're somehow at fault for not meeting your standards is toxic as hell. It's not okay when men do it, why would it be okay when women do it?