I'm not sure where I "projected" anything onto Gaiman. I quoted his actual words and then explicitly speculated at what he might be thinking.

As for the points you raised, I'm afraid I'm sticking to my "not engaging" on here. If you want to disagree with me on whether Gaiman should show he knows what he's talking about before wading in, have at it. If you want answers to questions about sexual assault by transwomen in female spaces, Google is your friend.